Divorce is just as common and just as difficult as applying for a Green Card. When Appling for a Green Card., there are appointments you have to make, you have to fill out lots of paperwork, you have to have an interview, there has to be a determination about your case, and then a decision is made, oh and there is a fee which can add up to an extreme amount of money, Its tiresome, trying, and in the end someone is going to be very happy or extremely disappointed.
While in the middle of this thing I am .trying to focus on going to school, going to work everyday, when all you really want to do is just stay home, put your head under the covers, eat ice cream every day and basically try to maintain a normal life (whatever that means) Everyday while in the middle of getting a divorce I find myself, staring into space wondering, How? Why?
I do this like everyday, because, I keep trying to figure out how did I get here, why am I here, what did I do to cause this, what didn’t I do? Then I think, about how none of this has anything to do with me, but how it has everything to do with me. You know what I mean?
Everyone tells you don’t worry, he was not good enough for you, or he is going to get what he deserves for treating you this way, or what goes around comes around.
Yeah right, at the time he was good enough and he treated me wonderfully, and I thought he had already got his-what-goes around, by marrying me. I hated finding out that someone you loved has lied in such a manner that all you can do is try not to be a victim of some officer’s police report.
…..ho hum back to to LiFe.